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Man and planning a proper diet for a pregnant woman

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Last reviewed: 04.07.2025
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Lifestyle changes for future dads

Now that pregnancy is a reality, it is time to analyze the situation to find ways to help the couple achieve a happy, healthy pregnancy. The couple wants to have a healthy baby, this is the goal of every pregnancy.

The way to ensure that the baby is healthy is to ensure the health of the expectant mother. This requires proper and good nutrition, exercise, a favorable environment, and emotional calm. As a future father, a man can be a very important participant in each of these components. You can provide good nutrition, do some exercises with your wife, keep the house clean, protect her health and safety, and support her morally.

Many couples say that some of their best memories of pregnancy are due to the lifestyle changes they made. Some of these changes will remain a part of your life together even after the baby is born.

Good nutrition for the mother is one of the most important keys to a healthy baby. When the expectant mother eats wisely and properly, her growing fetus receives the nutrients it needs to grow and develop. A man can be a part of this process by encouraging his wife to eat well.

Have you heard the expression, "A pregnant woman eats for two"? It's true, she eats for two - for herself and her baby, but she shouldn't eat twice as much! Some people are delusional like this, but the truth is that an average-sized woman needs to eat about 300 extra calories a day during pregnancy to ensure her baby is well-nourished. This isn't a lot of food - a woman can get these 300 calories from one 8-ounce cup of low-fat yogurt and a medium-sized apple.

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Man and planning proper nutrition

A man should help a woman by setting an example by eating healthy. You should not ask a woman to cook high-calorie food for a man and expect her to eat something different. You should not expect both spouses to eat fast food regularly. These changes to healthy eating will be beneficial for both of them.

  • What food should you eat?

The daily diet should provide the nutrients needed for a healthy pregnancy. Planning a healthy diet includes dairy products, protein foods, fruits, vegetables, breads, and cereals. It may take some time, but together the couple will be able to create a meal plan that suits them both. Planning a healthy diet will also help them watch their weight and avoid high-calorie junk food.

Below is a list of daily food items that includes the 6 food groups. Use them together to create a healthy eating plan and a varied menu:

  • dairy products - 4-5 times a day
  • protein sources - 3-4 times a day (168-196 g)
  • vegetables - at least 4 times a day
  • fruits - 2-4 times a day
  • bread, cereals, pasta and rice - 6-11 times a day
  • fats/oils - 3-5 times a day

A couple might want to work together to create a weekly meal plan. They should look at the grocery list and the number of servings per day and assess which foods and in what quantities will meet these needs. While this may not be something a couple would want to do together, creating and following such a plan together can strengthen the marriage relationship. It will show the woman that the man cares about her health and the health of their growing baby, and that they are working together to achieve the important goal of proper nutrition.

  • How much calcium?

It can be a little difficult for a woman to determine how much calcium she is getting from the foods she eats. Packages usually list the percentage of calcium in the product. This can be confusing because it is difficult to know how much is actually in there.

The solution is based on the fact that it lists the percentage of calcium a non-pregnant woman needs per day (800 mg per day). If the package says "20% of the daily value of calcium," simply multiply 800 by 0.2, which equals 160 mg. Your spouse can record how much calcium she gets from each calcium-containing food. A pregnant woman needs about 1,200 mg of calcium per day.

  • Selection of products

For the FORMATION of brain cells in the CHILD. Choline and decosahexaenoic acid (DHA) will help the formation of brain cells in the child during intrauterine development and breastfeeding. Choline is rich in milk, eggs, peanuts, whole grain bread and beef. DHA is found in fish, egg yolks, poultry, walnuts and wheat germ. A man should encourage his wife to eat these foods during pregnancy for the health of the child. Also see the two articles below on fish.

CHOOSE FOODS RICH IN FIBER. Foods that are high in fiber and low in sugar and fat are good choices for the meal plan. Fruits and vegetables, as well as whole grain biscuits and breads, are excellent choices. To prevent excess calories, include foods that are high in protein but low in fat, such as skinless chicken or turkey, cooked tuna, cod, and low-fat (1%) or skim milk.

FISH IS A GREAT CHOICE. Fish can be a healthy addition to your pregnancy diet. Fish contains omega-3 fatty acids, which can prevent pregnancy-induced hypertension and preeclampsia. Omega-3 fatty acids are also very beneficial for the development of brain cells in the baby. According to some studies, another benefit of including a variety of fish in your diet is that a pregnant woman will not give birth as early as she would have if she had not eaten fish, so babies are born with a larger initial pregnancy.

There is no danger in eating a lot of fish; fish is generally low in fat but rich in vitamin B, iron, zinc, selenium, and copper. A wide variety of fish is a great health supplement. "Good choices of fish and shellfish" include catfish, clams, piscina, crab, scaup, flounder, haddock, herring, lobster, mackerel, marlin, oysters, bass (freshwater and saltwater), ruffe, Pacific halibut, saury, snapper, salmon, and sole. Other fish should not be eaten, see article below. In general, pregnant women are advised to eat no more than 340 g of fish per week. This amount can be divided as desired: 2 times 170 g, 4 times 85 g or any other options, giving a total of 340 g. The goal is not to exceed 340 g of fish each week.

  • Foods to Avoid or Eat in Moderation

BE CAREFUL WITH JUNK FOOD. While a woman is watching her calorie intake to avoid gaining weight, a man should not buy junk food. Cookies, chocolate, cakes, pies, chips, candy, and ice cream contain a huge amount of extra calories. It will be beneficial for both spouses to eliminate junk food from their diets. The foods we call "junk" are usually high in calories, fatty, and contain little or no nutrients that are beneficial to the man, his wife, and the growing baby. Junk food can be eaten in small quantities, but should not be a regular part of your diet. Your man may not like the idea, but it will not last long. You will find that eliminating junk food from your diet is also beneficial to you.

SOME FOODS CAN CAUSE LISTERIOSIS. Certain dairy products and other foods should be avoided by pregnant women because they are a common source of food poisoning called listeriosis. These foods include unpasteurized milk, any products made from unpasteurized milk, soft cheeses such as Brie, Camembert, feta cheese, and Roquefort, undercooked poultry, undercooked meats, undercooked seafood, and undercooked sausages. To avoid this problem, avoid eating these cheeses and cook all meats and seafood thoroughly.

SOME FISH SHOULD NOT BE EATEN. Although fish is an excellent source of nutrients, some types should not be eaten during pregnancy because they may contain hazardous substances as a result of human pollution. Research has shown that pregnant women should not eat certain types of fish more than once a month, including shark, swordfish, king mackerel, tilefish, and tuna (fresh or frozen). Canned tuna is somewhat safer, but only one 170-gram serving per week is allowed (this should be included in the normal 340-gram weekly allowance, discussed in full above).

Some freshwater fish, such as bass, pike, or lake trout, are also risky to eat. To be safe, check your area's freshwater fish safety data sheets. Fish can also contain parasites, bacteria, viruses, and toxins. Sushi is a fish dish that may contain parasites or viruses. Eating unprocessed shellfish can cause hepatitis A, cholera, or gastroenteritis. Avoid eating any unprocessed fish while pregnant!

Other fish that should not be eaten during pregnancy include species found in warm tropical waters, such as Florida, the Caribbean, and Hawaii. The following "native" fish from these areas should not be eaten: barracuda, bluefish, gooper, mahimahi, tilefish, and raw tuna.

  • Does it matter when she eats?

Studies have shown that pregnant women who eat small, frequent meals throughout the day provide their growing babies with better nutrition than women who eat three large meals a day. Even though they get the same number of calories, there are differences.

We have found that maintaining a constant level of nutrients (by eating small, frequent meals) is better for the development of the fetus than eating large meals and then not eating. Eating three meals a day means that the nutrient levels rise and then fall throughout the day, which is not good for the developing baby. Eating small meals also helps avoid pregnancy-related problems such as nausea, heartburn, and indigestion.

Spouses can try to eat together. The woman's portions will be smaller, and she may eat earlier or later than the man is used to, but the couple can plan this. For example, you have breakfast together, at about the same time every morning. You should continue to do this. If the man cannot come home for dinner when the woman should be eating, he should not eat as much as he usually eats at lunch. You should leave some room for food and eat with your wife before bed. With mutual efforts, you can help each other spend time together. And it is necessary to remember - this is for the good of the woman and the child she is carrying!

  • Is it normal to eat food uncontrollably?

A man may be surprised by the strange food combinations his wife eats. Comedians have used the "pickles and ice cream" trope for years to illustrate the eccentricities of many pregnant women. A man may find that his wife's preferences aren't so strange, or they may be even stranger! We're not sure why women may develop strange food preferences, but many studies suggest that it's due to the hormonal and emotional changes that occur during pregnancy.

For many pregnant women, strange food preferences are a normal part of pregnancy. Eating certain foods can be beneficial or harmful. If a woman is eating nutrient-rich, healthy foods, she should be encouraged to eat them in moderation. If she is eating foods that are high in sugar, fat, and full of extra calories, she should be encouraged to eat healthier options.

PICA. THIS is a condition in which a pregnant woman eats non-edible things like ice, clay, coffee grounds, cornstarch, wax, and others. This type of uncontrolled eating is called pica, which is not very healthy for the woman or her baby. It can cause problems like volvulus, nutritional deficiencies, and severe constipation.

If a woman eats such foods, she should be encouraged to talk to her doctor about it. He or she may suggest a substitute, usually iron, to help with the problem. The woman's habit of eating inedible foods should not be encouraged.

FLUID IS ESSENTIAL FOR A HEALTHY PREGNANCY. A man should encourage his wife to drink plenty of fluids during her period. Water is the best option, but other fluids are acceptable. Foods and drinks that can provide the right amount of fluid include vegetables, milk and dairy products, fruits, and juices. Some herbal teas may be helpful for various pregnancy-related problems.

Coffee, tea, and soda should not be used as a source of fluid during pregnancy - they can be high in calories, contain sodium, and contain caffeine, which acts as a diuretic. If you can find low-sodium, decaffeinated soda, you can enjoy it, but pregnant women should avoid eating too many sweets to avoid gaining weight.

Eight 8-ounce glasses of fluid a day is a good goal to achieve together. A woman can drink boiled or bottled water, but if she chooses bottled water, she should make sure it has passed sanitary inspection. Water from the city tap rarely meets minimum sanitary standards. But the fact that it is bottled does not make it better. In addition, if the couple gets water from a well on their property, they should discuss this at one of their prenatal consultations. Their doctor will advise them about the possibility of drinking well water.

Drinking this amount of fluid is important for many reasons. It allows the body to absorb nutrients, form new cells, maintain blood volume, and maintain a constant temperature - all very important during pregnancy! After all, a woman's blood volume increases; drinking more fluid helps these changes. A woman is likely to feel better during pregnancy if she drinks more fluid than usual. A man may notice that in many of the articles on various pregnancy conditions described in Chapter 3, we say that drinking more fluid than usual can help relieve some problems. Drinking more fluid also has the following benefits:

  • increase stamina
  • easier contractions
  • preventing headaches
  • preventing urinary tract infections

If a man drinks plenty of fluids to support his wife, he will also benefit. Research has shown that most people - both men and women - do not drink enough to meet their body's needs.

  • Artificial sweeteners

Studies have not found aspartame (Nutrasweet) to be harmful to pregnant women. The phenylalanine in aspartame is added to the phenylalanine in food, so if this is a concern for a woman, a man should make sure she does not consume foods or drinks with aspartame. Saccharin is an artificial sweetener found in some foods and drinks; its effects on pregnancy have not yet been studied. As for the newer artificial sweeteners, we do not have enough information to tell readers how safe they are for women.

The best advice we can give a woman is to avoid using artificial sweeteners or use them in limited quantities during pregnancy.

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