Classification of psychological types of sexual partners
Last reviewed: 23.04.2024
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The man-father. An elderly person, psychologically having the need for a woman to bow before him, would be considerably younger, weaker physically, inexperienced. His sexual desire may be low (or reduced), but the art of courtship for a woman allows him to fascinate some women, and in sexual intercourse - to satisfy them through good preparation, the use of various and precisely chosen caresses, despite the small potency.
Male man. There are two types:
- active (aggressive) type,
- passive (in need of an aggressive woman).
Active. A young man or middle-aged man with good physical development, assertive, somewhat coarse, little differentiating caresses, but carrying them intensively. In the sexual act - a supporter of a long period of frictions, sometimes inclined to cause a woman pain and moral suffering.
Passive. Young or middle-aged man, worshiping a woman who considers herself unworthy of her, guilty, thirsts for her punishment and even contempt. He prefers women with aggressive tendencies in sexual life.
The man-son. Always young, infantile, physically weak, often loser, not afraid to tell a woman about it, wants her to regret it. In caresses a little cutesy, capricious, passive, expects from a woman custody, activity in sexual life.
A woman is a mother. More often than middle age (at a younger age has undifferentiated sexuality), but maybe young. In the system of caresses, the motive for salvation, support, and upbringing prevails. Sometimes it comes to rapprochement with alcoholics, psychopaths, chronic losers in order to save them, to make a man. Lack of beauty, physical weakness, impracticality, unsuccessfulness, morbidity of men not only do not repel them, but on the contrary, they can be factors that attract, excite.
Woman Woman:
- passive (feminine, suffering) type,
- active (aggressive, female lord).
Passive. Most often younger than a man, prone to obedience, self-sacrifice, soft, compliant, accepts the behavior pattern and tactics of a man in sexual life, but reacts negatively to his passivity, weakness and failure. Her ideal of a man includes physical strength, a somewhat standard, but beautiful appearance. In former times, I liked to marry.
Active. Strives for an active choice of a partner, domination over him. Love expresses irony, criticism, ridicule. In caresses is active; emphasizing the inability of a man, can scold and caress simultaneously, and also cause him pain.
Woman-daughter. Usually much younger than men, notes that since adolescence, they have liked those that are much older. It was boring with my peers. Has a great need for sexual prelude, than in the intensity of the sexual act itself. Even physical signs of old age, for example, wrinkles, like this woman.
Comparing the socio-psychological characteristics of these types of men and women, one can see that, for example, a man-son and a mother-woman represent psychological and sexual harmony. The same can be said about a man-man and a woman-woman. At the same time, the male-father-mother-woman relationship, male-son and female-woman indicate a certain disharmony in sexual needs and expectations (expe- rations).
Thus, all stages and variants of the so-called sexual technology should be considered not only from the point of view of the mechanical impact of certain stimuli, but also from the point of view of their psychological content, conformity or inconsistency with personal needs, values, attitudes and positions of the person.
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