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Last reviewed: 06.07.2025

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Maybe your relationship isn't as fresh as it used to be, or maybe you're just a romantic person and there's just not enough romance in your life. Planning a romantic evening for you and your partner is a great way to improve your love relationship. But how do you do it right? How do you make your partner's eyes sparkle and your heart beat faster? And yours too.
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- If you decide to have a romantic evening for you and your partner, first of all, make sure that no one will disturb you, be it parents, children, friends, etc.
- It is better to choose the last working day for this evening. Even if you are tired after work, thoughts about the upcoming weekend will give you strength. In addition, both of you will not think about going to work the next morning.
- A romantic evening should be beautiful and your appearance should match the setting.
- Take care of the romantic music that would be ideal for this situation. This music should be loved by both you and your partner. For this, it would not be superfluous to find out about his tastes in advance.
- Don't overdo it with preparation. It may well be that after all the preparations you won't have the energy for a romantic evening.
- Forget about phones and TV. All you need is your partner.
- Don't cook too much. Your romantic evening isn't meant to kill your hunger. It's important to maintain the general atmosphere of the evening. Also, don't overeat, because if you both want to make love later, full stomachs can be a serious obstacle.
- Advice for women: try to look stunning. Think about your dress, evening make-up, sexy lingerie, etc.
- A romantic evening is a rest for both of you. You should create an intimate atmosphere with the help of a play of light and shadows: light candles, aroma lamps. But you can replace them with lamps, especially effective are lamps with red or blue light.
- You can replace a romantic evening indoors with an outdoor stay. How exciting it is to walk together under the stars, stop at the beach with a bottle of champagne (if possible, of course), etc. Use your imagination...
- Consider continuing your romantic evening. Make love with incredible tenderness or, on the contrary, show your extraordinary passion (do everything possible to please your partner, but do not overdo it).
After you have spent such a bright romantic time together, you may suddenly realize that your love is still strong, that it has not been lost in the daily hustle and bustle. A romantic evening for two… Just thinking about it tomorrow, on weekdays, can ignite your sexual passion – yours and your partner’s.