Names of 12 secrets of violent sex
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Sometimes every sexual relationship requires shaking and new sensations. For a fading fire of love to break out with renewed vigor, try to follow these simple rules recommended by the teacher of the Department of Psychiatry, Obstetrics and Gynecology at the Feinberg School of Northeastern University Laura Berman.
Touch sensitive points
Irritation of sensitive areas during frictions will help you reach the highest point of enjoyment. The most advantageous position in this case is the direct contact of the clitoris with the pubis of a man. Also get an orgasm pillow, put under the buttocks of a woman. In this case, the friction of the genitals is increased with every gesture. You can also try sex using a vibrator.
Communication during sex
Communication plays an important role in sexual relations, because partners must communicate to each other, what poses or caresses bring them more pleasure. Do not be afraid to consult and voice your desires.
[Get to know your body
It will not be easy for you to direct a partner, if you are not well versed in your feelings and feelings, so listen to what your body responds to. Also a very effective means of this self-knowledge is masturbation.
Exercise muscles
To achieve the peaks of pleasure you need strong muscles. The best exercise is compression. You need to determine which muscle in the perineal region stops urinating, and train it every day.
Take risks
According to the researchers, the joint experience of risky situations contributes to the release of the hormone dopamine, stimulating sexual desire. So, who does not take risks ...
Delay the moment of having fun
The longer you manage to delay the onset of orgasm, the brighter it will be. This can be achieved, each time slowing down the pace of the sexual race.
See erotic movies
Erotica excites, fills with sensuality and desire. If you prefer porn, then do not be shy, inflame your imagination. The more you are excited, the higher the chances of getting an enchanting orgasm.
Watch your breathing
If you can focus on how to breathe, then sex will get new colors. With the help of breathing in unison with a partner, you can get even more excited, which certainly will end tremendously.
Prelude requires imagination
If your partner is not there, but only on the way, use this time to warm up the feelings more. Sms of a sexual nature will provoke him and make fantasy work vigorously.
Medications can harm
Antidepressants can adversely affect sexual life. And according to statistics, women take these drugs more often than men. If you feel unwell, ask your doctor for help.
Do not delay the visit to the doctor
If you can not reach orgasm, then it's worth turning to a professional and as early as possible.
Relax
Many women can not fully surrender to sexual relations, constantly being in a state of stress. The reasons may be problems at work or some kind of life hardship. However, in sex, all this is superfluous, so try to part with these thoughts already on the threshold of the bedroom.