6 most frequent female excuses from sex
Last reviewed: 23.04.2024
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No matter how strong the relationship, but there are situations where the desire to have sex is completely absent. This is not surprising, because we are all people and each of us has such moments. But how can you not want to offend your soul mate ... For this reason, many women will come up with a variety of excuses. The most popular of them, of course, is headache and fatigue.
We will give an example of some of the most popular women's excuses and hope that you will use them as rarely as possible, because there is nothing more beautiful than the relationship of two loving hearts.
Well, without this excuse, as they say, anywhere - "My head hurts."
This phrase has managed to become legendary and is successfully exaggerated in anecdotes. If you really have a headache, then treat her rather ... Sex. Yes exactly! According to experts, the action of analgesics can be compared with good sex, so "take" the natural, and do not stuff yourself with pills.
One of the most popular excuses is "I'm tired and do not want anything". \
Of course, you can understand those women who came home from work and fed the whole family, only dream of a pillow and a strong sleep, but nothing about sexual pleasures. However, even from such a state there is a medicine - "warm up" yourself during the day. For example, having found a free minute at work, surrender to pleasant sexual fantasies or, having come home, greet the husband with a passionate kiss, from which creeps go on the skin. According to experts, if you do not adjust yourself to fatigue and not think about sex as a duty, then you will feel less exhausted.
Next comes another phenomenal "otnekivalka" - "I do not have time."
If you live only by work, cleaning, washing and a million more different things, then all the same you will not remake, so relax and enjoy. Moreover, this is not the best reason for refusing sex, because fifteen minutes will suffice with a head.
"I have no mood."
Sometimes a woman takes time to rekindle passion and flame. Obvious reasons for reluctance may not be, just do not have any mood and that's it. In this case, experts advise you to undress and just cuddle up to each other. Thus, the process of producing pheromones that cause sexual desire will intensify. Sometimes it is enough and a couple of minutes to the woman returned to her mood.
"I hate my thighs."
The word hip is not important in this case, because women can choose any part of the body to target their dissatisfaction and criticism, even if there is not a blemish in it. Such thoughts are unsafe, because if you always talk about this to a partner who, by the way, chose you, then sooner or later he will pay attention to a wrinkle on his stomach. Do not blame yourself, nobody pulled you by the tongue. It is best to stop these conversations and, as psychologists advise, dress up in beautiful, seductive underwear and stand on high heels. You immediately feel how self-doubt goes away, and all complexes are dissolved.
And in the end, in our opinion, the most stupid excuse is "I'm watching the show."
Surely many will disagree, having found one thousand and one reasons why you need to see "Sex in the City" or "Housewives". But just think, you are looking at serial relationships and are touched by the love of heroes, when in reality you abandon your own. In extreme cases, the missed series can be seen in the entry.
Well, we hope that you will be healthy and all these excuses will only laugh!
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