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What women want: secrets that every man should know
Last reviewed: 01.07.2025
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What do women want? Surely every man has asked himself this question. Ilive lifts the veil of this incomprehensible mystery and presents 19 women's secrets that will definitely be useful to men.
Gallantry
When it comes to romantic relationships, a woman wants to see a real man next to her – strong and courageous. What lady would not like a gallant gentleman who does not forget to open doors for her and pull out a chair?
They judge you by your clothes
Of course, clothes are not the most important thing in a relationship, but a woman evaluates a man's appearance from the first minute. This first impression plays an important role in building further relationships.
Men in red
According to research by scientists, women are attracted to men who wear red. This happens on a subconscious level. Ladies think that such men are strong, attractive and masculine.
Admit your shortcomings
A man who not only does not hide, but also admits his shortcomings, is able to disarm any woman. According to the representatives of the fair half of humanity, men who openly talk about their shortcomings strive to become better, they are more sensitive and thoughtful.
Know how to listen
Sometimes a woman just wants to be listened to, not given valuable advice and taught how to live. Therefore, learn to be a good listener, but at the same time let the lady understand that you are not just listening to her, but also hearing her. This will benefit the relationship and deepen feelings.
Third date doesn't mean sex on the fourth
In fact, sex after the third date is nothing more than a legend. Most do not agree to sex on a schedule and each approaches this stage of the relationship individually. Some need more time to establish an emotional connection with a partner, some can understand after the first meeting that the one and only is nearby.
Let's hurry without rushing
Men and women want sex differently. A woman may want intimacy, but first and foremost she needs romance, touch and words, in a word – foreplay is a must.
If the first sex was not successful
If the first intimacy was not cloudless, it is important for a woman to discuss it and find out the reason. Silence, even if the conversation is not the most pleasant, can aggravate the problem and cool the nascent feelings.
Women love with their ears
This is the real truth. It is important for a woman to hear compliments from a man, it is important to know that he notices her beauty, her new hairstyle and her new blouse. Half of the problems will be solved if a man does not forget the simple truth - women love with their ears and need words of approval and admiration.
Discuss relationships
If your companion wants to talk about relationships, do not avoid this topic. You may have a complete idyll, but women sometimes want to have a frank conversation, in this way she tries to get to know you better, and not to arrange a debriefing.
[ Romance in relationships
It doesn't matter how long you've been together, a day or twenty years. Love and romance have no deadlines. You always want tenderness, affection and emotions, so pamper your other half with flowers and signs of attention, and her gratitude in return will not take long to come.