Men change from great love to wife
Last reviewed: 16.10.2021
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It turns out that adultery can be proof of the husband's love for his wife. This is exactly what the author of the book considers, which opens a new light on the psychology of family relations.
Author of the book "The trap of monogamy: men, love and the reality of betrayal" Eric Anderson argues that a strong sex changes to their spouses not because they cease to love them, but quite the opposite - from love. Professor of Sociology at the University of Winchester, Dr. Anderson, held conversations with 120 men, on the basis of which this book was born.
He found out that the main motive of adultery is elementary boredom in bed, and not the disappearance of strong feelings. Consequently, monogamy in general can be considered an unrealistic expectation. Men go on betrayals out of love for wives and out of a desire to continue to deal with them. If the husband did not love his wife, he would not go to the left, but simply go to another woman who provides him with sex without obligations.
"Numerous facts prove to us that adultery is decided by men who experience the most romantic feelings for wives," says Dr. Anderson, "They are simply not satisfied with sex life, they are tired of having sex with the same partner. It seems paradoxical, but husbands do change their wives from love. "Men are just very afraid of losing a woman, demonstrating sexual interest in another."
However, many women disagree with the views of Dr. Anderson. They point out to him the fine line between "sexual attraction" and "love." After all, a lot of divorces just started with the fact that a man found a more "interesting" from the point of view of sex, a woman who later became his new wife.