Psychologists told how to painlessly survive a divorce
Last reviewed: 23.04.2024
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Divorce is always a great stress for partners, regardless of who made the decision to part. In addition to emotional anxiety, one has to deal with paper red tape, solve problems with acquired property. However it became known that even from this situation it is possible to come out easily and with humor. So, for example, in Japan, one of the temples allows you to get rid of an unsuccessful marriage, just by lowering it into the toilet. To do this, you need to write on the sheet of paper all the claims and grievances, and then it is washed into the toilet to get rid of bad karma.
You can arrange a divorce ceremony similar to the wedding ceremony. And her organization can include everything, anything, up to the ejection of engagement rings. And for this action everyone can gather: from family members to strangers. The final stage of the ceremony is the scoring of the reason why the couple decided to end the relationship.
In some countries, the so-called ceremony of hope is practiced. Usually in the West, it takes place in the church, and it is led by a representative. In this case, the couple does not exchange vows of eternal love, loyalty and devotion, but on the contrary, the parties apologize to each other and apologize for the pain that they may have caused during the marriage. You can also arrange a party dedicated to divorce. Very often, in this way, spouses who embarked on the path of divorce mark the end of their married life and celebrate the birth of a new one.
