Confidence in a partner is the key to a successful marriage
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Couples who are going to bind themselves by marriage should not ignore the uncertainty and doubts they have, according to specialists from Albert University.
"If you have doubts about your relationship and future family life with a partner, you can not ignore them, in the future it can negatively affect family relationships and upset the marriage," said lead author Matthew Johnson.
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A study of scientists published in the journal Family Life showed that couples who had no doubts about the choice of partner and further life with him, and also spent a lot of time together before marriage, successfully survived the first year together, which happens hard, and were still happy and three years after the wedding.
Dr. Matthew Johnson also co-authored a study at the University of Kansas, which examined the relationship of 610 young married couples and their degree of trust in relation to each other.
Those young people who did not doubt family happiness and partner before the wedding, had a great honeymoon and started a family life.
"These couples spent time together, ate, took part in events together, shared experiences and talked, and also expressed each other their love. Those who were more confident in marriage were ready to invest in relationships and strengthen them, "- commented Dr. Johnson.
While divorce is the most common solution to all problems, you can keep the relationship by going to the world, yielding to each other and not keeping quiet about the dissatisfaction and problems that wave each of the spouses. Let it be devoid of romance and brilliance, but this is a way out. The main thing is not to let everything go on its own and not wait until everything is formed by itself.
For those couples whose doubts about joint family life creep in, it will be useful to visit a premarital adviser who will help you understand the situation and help solve all the worrying problems and misunderstandings that make people doubt.