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80% of women have problems with their sex life
Last reviewed: 01.07.2025
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Problems in sexual life are not so rare. Today, 80% of women have problems in their sexual life.
Female sexuality is a complex combination of emotional, mental and physical signals. And if a problem arises in one area, then other problems are likely to develop. But in order to get rid of them, it is necessary to know what is the cause of the disorders. And they can be hidden in both physical ailments and mental disorders.
Some sexual problems are caused by mental and emotional reasons, including:
- Stress
- Emotional abuse
- Depression
- Problems with self-esteem and self-worth
If a woman is worried about having sex with a partner and she experiences negative emotions associated with intimacy, then it is necessary to understand what state the relationship is in. Only partners who are happy with each other and their relationship can get pleasure from sex. This does not mean that quarrels or any conflicts are excluded in a couple, but minor troubles cannot in this case not become the cause of disorders in sexual life.
Many women at some point in their lives feel that they do not get joy and satisfaction from sex. Among the reasons that ladies voice, the main ones are the following:
Inability to achieve orgasm
The reasons may be physiological, for example, the absence of orgasm may be caused by hormonal changes or be a consequence of a previous operation. According to doctors, fixation on achieving orgasm may be the main reason for its absence.
Low libido
Some women feel a loss of interest in their intimate life. Low libido can be caused by depression, stress, or other emotional factors that prevent relaxation and lead to a loss of sexual appetite. Physiological causes include menopause, cardiovascular diseases, urinary tract infections, pregnancy, breastfeeding, and the use of certain medications (antidepressants or contraceptives).
Painful sensations
Sex should be pleasurable, not painful. There are many medical conditions that can interfere with enjoying intimate relationships. One of them is vaginismus, in which involuntary muscle spasms in the vagina make it difficult or impossible to insert the penis. Vaginal infection, thinning and dryness of the vaginal linings can also cause discomfort and pain.
Possible medical problems
In some cases, sexual dysfunction may be caused by pelvic injuries or surgery (uterine surgery or cesarean section), insufficient blood flow to the genitals, problems with the production of the hormones estrogen and testosterone. Also, the disorders can be caused by weak vaginal muscles, which can be strengthened with a set of Kegel exercises.
The final step in eliminating problems in sex may be vaginal surgery, but surgical intervention should only be used as a last resort, since it is possible that nerve endings will be affected during the operation, which will negatively affect the woman’s sex life.