How not to frighten off the man of your dreams?
Last reviewed: 23.04.2024
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What do men really want? How do they evaluate the girls and their actions?
9 things that a girl can frighten a potential chevalier.
Attack of glamor
Prada, Fendi, Gucci ... Believe me, your gentleman is absolutely uninteresting how many brands you are wearing, because he chose you not for that. You can be a walking shield that advertises branded things, but your partner is more important that is under a glamorous wrapper.
Always hungry
Do not be afraid to look untidy, if a sauce has dripped on your chin or something else has happened. This is not the end of the world. Use a napkin and stop drilling your brain with thoughts: "Ah, probably he thought that I was sprawling. Everything, next time I have nothing at all. " This is the fault of many girls whom men invite to a restaurant. The lady orders a salad and all the evening she picks it with a fork so that she does not look ridiculous, stupid, and so on. Stop being afraid, eat, have fun and be yourself.
Pseudo-sports fan
Your lover is lucky if you completely share his sports interests, and all the scores of football / basketball / volleyball are held together. However, if you are completely uninteresting goals, fouls, penalties, throws and strikes, then in any case, do not try to please the man, having learned a couple of names of players. You will make an indelible impression, but only not what you expect.
Clever owl
A well-educated girl always attracts and impresses. Such a lady can support the conversation, discuss and simply demonstrate the knowledge gained by hard work at the university. But! A truly educated and educated girl will never allow herself to brag about where she studied (despite the fact that the place is prestigious) and what successes she has achieved.
Laughter
Of course, no one goes to see the funeral faces, but believe me, a pots-based causeless giggle can lead a man out of balance, even the thick-skinned man himself.
Business Sausage
Targeted, ambitious women have some attraction, which attracts men. However, if a woman mixes work with personal life, then it does not lead to the good. Do not let the work "grab" your relationship. A man is unlikely to like a girl who has a computer in her head.
Artificial babe
Artificial locks of hair and exaggerated nails - this hardly can be surprised, especially if you do not know the boundaries. There is nothing wrong with accentuating the feminine charms and virtues, but remember that everything is good in moderation.
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Soul unraveling
You will still have time to share with your loved one the history of your life. However, if you kill the tanks at the first meeting, then there is a risk that all subsequent visits are canceled. In addition, men love a woman in a mystery, do not open your secrets in the very first minutes.
Too available
Few of the men will reject your offer to go to a cup of coffee in the evening, stay until morning and have breakfast together. But in here and all the dirty trick. After that, a man may not call, but you will be tormented by thoughts, what have I done, since everything went perfectly? Men should seek, hunt, and whatever you like, call it. To what gets on the saucer quickly disappears interest. So flirt, be sexy, but hurry to give your knight a heart and love.