10 mistakes on the first date
Last reviewed: 16.10.2021
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Almost every person can remember some curious situation that happened on a date. But except for curiosities and fun, sometimes on a date a person can behave somewhat tactlessly and thereby spoil a pleasant romantic evening. What mistakes and unspoken rules of behavior exist on the date? Let's figure it out with Ilive.
Too much information
This means that it is not yet worthwhile to dedicate a person who is not so distant to the details of his childhood, pedigree, family traditions, and so on. From such an abundance of information a person can escape millet in order to avoid further stories. And, of course, about the second date, then you can forget.
Uncomfortable moments
The first date is a chance to make a positive impression. Therefore, you need to remember some things and rules of behavior. First, do not abuse alcohol, even if it seems to you that it will relieve tension. Language can get loose so much that in the morning it will be very uncomfortable for yesterday. Also, you do not need to visit the places where you spent time with your ex-lover / oh. Memories can rush and it does not turn into a date, but in a wake of unhappy love.
Cross out the past
Even if your past relationships were not perfect, after parting people tend to remember only good moments. This threatens the fact that some are beginning to compare the former with the new partners. This is very few people like and can lead to negative consequences. Especially the topic "and my former ..." is inappropriate on the first date.
Listen to yourself
Love at first sight is fine and very good, if it does not pass from the second. If you are on a first date, you feel that you are uncomfortable, difficult and difficult, that is, there is very little chance that all subsequent visits will awaken you bright feelings. Until you get stuck in a relationship that is doomed to an unhappy end, it's better not to start at all.
Unexpected visits
When a person invites you to a date and unexpectedly offers to meet for an hour, this can mean only one thing: he is simply not interested in a meeting, and thus tries to take his free time or a failed meeting. Agreeing to such a rendezvous, you run the risk of forever remaining on the sidelines.
Love at first sight
Undoubtedly, it exists and it is very romantic, when people from the first minute of the meeting understand that they are destined to live their whole lives only with each other. However, often, unfortunately, such sparkles of passion go out when they get to know each other, despite vows of eternal love and promises to get married. Such attraction can be just physical, and people can talk in different languages, not understanding the desire and desire of a partner, which destroys the ideal world of love. Moreover, it is difficult to build relationships in one day. This is only possible for the participants of "Dom-2".
Love games
Love and everything connected with it is a storm of emotions, emotions, nerves, but still they are wonderful, exciting feelings. Odako sometimes love games can go too far. For example, manipulation, such as I will not call her, let him suffer, feigned coldness at a meeting, in the hope that the prince will fall to his knees and pray to marry him, manipulate a partner and similar seemingly innocuous antics. All this can have unpleasant consequences, up to the breaking of the relationship, because if you really want to play, then do not really play around.
Warning signs
Your chevalier is great, successful and irresistible, oduko something you are alarming and does not let you relax? It is better to listen to your feelings. Watch him, maybe your gentleman becomes too violent when he drinks, or he gets called every two hours by his mother or something else suspicious. If this does not suit you, then you need to carry your feet. Of course, everyone has their own quirks, but the question is, how bizarre are they and can you live with them?
False
It's definitely not worth starting a relationship with a deception. Even a petty lie, like that I was late, because I'm stuck in a traffic jam, I can not come because I need to visit my grandmother, and so on, can put an end to the most romantic relationship. Sooner or later, as they say, everything becomes clear, and trust disappears.
Do not go too far
As for the girls, coquetry, of course, has not been canceled, but you do not need to grimace, grimace and constantly giggle if you do not want a man to take you for an ordinary doll that has a lot of free space in his head.
Men, well, very desirable, do not solve their business issues on a date. This is simply tactless and it is unlikely that such a meeting can be called a date. On a date, it is better to come early, but in no case be late, especially if the venue is set on the street, and even in winter. Also, it is better for a man to think in advance where a meeting will take place, so that there are no questions "Well, where do we go? Any suggestions?".
And one more advice concerns both to a fine floor, and to representatives of a strong half of mankind: do not interrupt each other, racing telling something. If you are destined to be together, then you will have enough time to speak.